双语：公司办公室友情很危险不能讲哪些东西

坚信每个人都几个关联较为好些的朋友

大家下班了会一起去用餐，逛街购物，看电视剧

就算是早已不在一起工作中了

却依然维持着联络

祝贺你了！

有着一份“公司办公室友情”

这一份情义会给你工作的時间不那麼无趣

但若这类关联“处理错误”

很有可能会对你导的损害！

下边这7条约定俗成“规律”你留意到了吗？

Beware oversharing

当心过多共享

Share with caution. Take the time to get to know your co-workers a bit before divulging personal information and stay appropriate and professional even with those you trust. Have clear boundaries about what is “shareable” and what is not. Family updates, hobbies, interests, educational pursuits, etc. are all fair game. Illegal activities, intimate details, and “resume exaggerations,” not so much.

与别人共享时要当心。表露私人信息以前，先花些時间掌握你的朋友，就算是对这些你信任感的人还要维持适度和技术专业的心态。针对什么叫“能够共享的”哪些不能，要有清晰的定义。家中现况、个人爱好、文化教育追求完美这些是能够表露的。而违纪行为、私秘关键点和个人简历中的夸大其词成份就无须多讲过。

Nix the complaining

别向朋友埋怨

No matter how well you know your “office friend”, don’t gossip or complain about your boss. That’s a big NO-NO. It puts your office friend in a very uncomfortable situation and could be potentially damaging if your words ever reached the ears of the wrong person. Save your venting for your other personal friends outside of work.

无论给你多掌握你的“公司办公室盆友”，都不必跟他/她八卦或是埋怨大家的老总。它是绝不允许做的。这会给你的公司办公室盆友觉得十分躁动不安，假如你的话传入不应该听见的人的耳朵里，不良影响很有可能很严重。埋怨得话還是对工作圈之外的盆友讲吧。

Maintain individuality

维持个别差异

Be careful that your office friendships don’t obscure your individual accomplishments and separateness. You still need to build and protect your individual reputation on the job. Especially in the beginning of your career, you need to shine and stand out from the crowd. Office alliances are part of the work culture, that’s fine, just don’t let your own contributions become overshadowed.

当心别给你的公司办公室友情遮盖了你本人的工作能力和自觉性。你仍然*须创建和维护保养你在工作上的本人信誉，尤其是在职业发展的发展环节，你需要从群体中出类拔萃。公司办公室同盟是工作中文化艺术的一部分，这没有什么，仅仅别因而遮盖了你本人的奉献。

Watch the gossip

当心八卦

It’s natural and normal for people to show an interest in what other people do and say. It’s not necessarily all bad providing it isn’t malicious, but be careful. Gossip can cause hurt feelings and stir up trouble and office drama create enemies that you don’t need or want. Do not be the “office gossip.”

大家对别人的言谈举止很感兴趣是很当然也是很一切正常的。要是并不是冷嘲热讽，八卦也并不是都那麼槽糕。可是要当心。八卦很有可能会令人遭受损害，造成不便。而公司办公室的风波会让你招来你不用更不要想的对手。不必做公司办公室的“血盆大口”

Don’t play favorites

不必厚此薄彼

Try to collaborate with and get to know other co-workers, so that they don’t feel excluded. It’s nice to have a friend in the office, but don’t play favorites. Be very clear that you will not show preference or extend special favors, nor will you cover up mistakes or dishonest behavior and that you do not expect it in return. Remember that when you’re at work, you’re working.

尝试同事协作，而且去掌握她们，那样她们就不容易感觉遭受挤兑。在办公室有一个朋友是好事儿，但也不必厚此薄彼。你需要清晰，你不能主要表现出趋向或是钟爱，都不应当替人遮盖不正确或是不守信用的个人行为，尽管你也不期待别人为此做为收益。记得你是在工作中！

Diversify friendships

让友情多元化

Many of us spend the majority of time at work, it’s true. And the common interests and dilemmas we share with our office friends may draw us together, but having a circle of friends outside of work is important as well. We need to turn off our “work brain” and separate ourselves from work regularly to keep stress at bay. It also helps us to cultivate a variety of friends, broaden our circle of support and keep our lives full and interesting.

大家很多人把关键時间都花在了工作方面，它是客观事实。大家和公司办公室小伙伴们相互的权益和窘境把大家聚在一起，但有一个工作中以外的微信朋友圈也十分关键。大家有时候也*须关掉“工作中大脑”，把自己从工作上解放出来，减轻一下工作压力。这还有利于帮大家塑造各种各样盆友，扩张我们的朋友圈，让我们的日常生活丰富多彩而趣味。

Navigate office “breakups” professionally

以岗位心态解决裂开的公司办公室友情

It’s inevitable that for whatever reason, some office friendships, like any other, won’t last. When it happens, and it will, it’s imperative to remain professional. Be polite and courteous ALWAYS. No matter what has transpired, do not gripe and complain about your ex-friend to other workers. Stay professional and focus on doing your job. Don’t feed office drama. You’ll save yourself a lot of stress as well as demonstrate that you can handle conflict professionally.

总会有一些公司办公室友情会由于一些缘故没法长期，它是难以避免的。假如事儿发生了，就*须以岗位的心态去解决。始终要维持文质彬彬。无论发生什么事，决不要和别的的朋友去埋怨你以前的盆友。维持岗位的心态，致力于你的工作中，别给公司办公室大戏添油投料。那样你的工作压力会小许多 ，并且会证实你能以岗位心态解决分歧。

因此

公司办公室友情有风险性

交朋友需慎重

不必让这一份“情义”

带来你多余的不便

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