绝大多数人都期盼取得成功，可是很多人也没有取得成功，因此有些人感觉取得成功难以。客观事实确实这般吗？你了解成功人士和平凡的人有那些区别吗？

1. Embrace change vs. Fear change

1. 接纳更改 vs. 畏惧更改

Embracing change is one of the hardest things a person can do. With the world moving so fast and constantly changing, and technologyaccelerating faster than ever, we need to embrace what’s coming and adapt, rather than fear it, deny it or hide from it.

一个人较难做的事儿*便是接纳更改。这世界发展太快，随时都会产生着更改，而高新科技也是日新月异。大家应当接纳即将来临的更改，并融入那样的更改，而不是担心、否定、躲避。

2. Want others to succeed vs. Secretly hope others fail

2. 期待别人取得成功 vs. 背地里期待别人不成功

When you’re in an organization with a group of people, in order to be successful, you all have to be successful. We need to want to see our co-workers succeed and grow. If you wish for their demise, why even work with them at all?

和一群人在一家企业工作中的情况下，你需要想取得成功，那麼任何人都务必取得成功。大家应当期待见到自身朋友的取得成功和发展。假如你期待她们不成功，那还为何要和她们一起工作中呢？

3. Accept responsibly for your failures vs. Blame others for your failures

3.敢于担负不成功的义务 vs. 因不成功埋怨别人

Where there are ups, there are most always downs. Being a leader and successful businessperson means always having to accept responsibility for your failures. Blaming others solves nothing; it just puts other people down and absolutely no good comes from it.

人生道路一直填满起起伏伏。做为一个管理者和一名取得成功的商业服务人员要敢于担负不成功的义务。抱怨别人无济于事，总是让他人觉得尴尬，埋怨决不能有一切益处。

4. Talk about ideas vs. Talk about people

4. 讨论念头 vs. 讨论别人

What did we all learn in high school? Gossip gets you nowhere. Instead of gossiping about people, successful people talk about ideas. Sharing ideas with others will only make them better.

我们在普通高中都学会了哪些？八卦不容易让你产生一切益处。成功者在一起会讨论自身的念头而不是八卦别人。相互互换念头总是让她们变的更强。

5. Set goals and life plans vs. Do not set goals

5. 建立总体目标和人生目标规划 vs. 没有目标

You can't possibly be successful without knowing where you're going in life. A life vision board, 10 year plan, 3 year forecast, annual strategic plan, and daily goal lists are useful tools of the mega-successful people. Get your vision and goals down on paper!

日常生活，假如你永远不知道自身要往哪儿前行，那麼你也不容易取得成功。职业规划，十年整体规划，三年预估，每一年的策略方案及其每日的总体目标目录针对成功者全是很有效的专用工具。将自身的整体规划和总体目标写在紙上。

6. Keep a journal vs. Say you keep a journal but don’t

6. 写日记 vs. 说自身要写日记但从未读过

Keeping a journal is a great way to jot down quick ideas or thoughts. Writing them down can lead to something even greater. You can even use mobile apps or your Notes function in your phone. But don’t fool yourself by saying you keep a journal and not following through.

写日记是一个非常好的方式 来迅速地记录下来自身的念头。记录下来这种念头会造就出更杰出的物品。你乃至能够应用手机上的应用软件或是手机里的便笺作用来写日记。可是不必蒙骗自身，说要写日记但从来没有实行过。

7. Read every day vs. Watch TV every day

7. 每日阅读 vs. 每日看电视剧

Reading every day educates you on new subjects. Whether you are reading a blog, your favorite magazine or a good book, you can learn and become more knowledgeable as you read. Watching television, on the other hand, may be good entertainment or an escape, but you'll rarely get anything out of TV to help you become more successful.

每日的阅读文章能够给你触碰不一样的內容。无论是读一篇blog，自身*爱的杂志期刊還是一本好书，你都是会学得物品，变的更为博学多才。反过来，看电视剧或许是非常好的娱乐方式也就是说是一种非常好的躲避方法，可是要想取得成功，电视栏目好处非常少。

8. Continuously learn vs. Fly by the seat of your pants

8. 不断进步 vs. 三分钟热度

Continuously learning and improving is the only way to grow. You can be a step above your competition and become more flexible because you know more. If you just fly by the seat of your pants, you could be passing up opportunities that prevent you from learning (and growing!)

持续的学习培训和发展是**的发展方法。由于了解大量，自身就可以在市场竞争中把握主动权，也会更为得心应手。假如办事一直三分钟热度，你也就会错过许多机遇，防碍自身的学习培训和发展。

9. Forgive others vs. Hold a grudge

9. 宽容别人 vs. 持续埋怨

Everybody makes mistakes; it’s human. The only way to get past the mistake is to forgive and move on. Dwelling on anger only makes things worse - for you.

每个人都犯错误，它是难以避免的。**处理不正确的方法便是宽容，随后砥砺前行。对自身来讲，老是发火总是让事儿越来越更糟糕。

10. Keep a “To-Be” list vs. Don’t know what you want to be

10. 有着理想 vs. 前途茫然

A “To-Be” list is a great way to strategize for the future. I want to be an elected official one day. I want to be a TED speaker. I want to be the CEO of a public company. I want to be a great father and husband. Unsuccessful people have no idea what they want to be. If you don’t know what you want to be, how can you achieve success? What do you want to be?

一份“理想”目录是非常好的整体规划。终有一天，我想变成一名高官。我要变成一名TED演讲者。我要变成一家上市企业的CEO。我要变成一个杰出的爸爸和老公。平凡的人不清楚她们想要成为哪些。假如你都不清楚自身想要成为哪些，为什么会取得成功呢？你想要成为什么？